Tag: <span>DATING</span>

couple snuggleIs there a guy you are talking to right now who you would really like to have as your boyfriend? 

Or maybe you’d even like him to propose? Maybe he would get down on one knee give you a big ring take you on a trip and you could have his babies? Do you know any guys like that? Well, if so keep reading because I’m about to expose exactly how you should be texting a guy like this to make him fall in love with you forever.

Have you heard of the hero instinct?

The Hero instinct was first introduced by relationship expert James Bauer, And since then it has become extremely well known. Essentially, this is an instinct that almost all men have, And when you trigger it you basically get a guy to want to be your hero as corny as that may sound. So basically, once you know how to trigger this instinct, you should have a much easier time attracting the man that you want.

The cool thing is that there are actually simple formulaic text messages that you can use to trigger this instinct in a man and get him to feel excited and connected to you on a romantic level.

Texting Tip 1 – Text About The Right (Non-Boring) Topics

The first step to texting a guy is to think of topics. Do you want to text him about things that make them excited and eager to chat and meet up with you. A guy does not want to read endless texts about your life, so try to come up with a topic that he’ll be interested in. 

You can do this by asking him a question, mentioning something that interests him. 

You also want to consider the logistics of when you text the guy. For example, if you were at work and you decide to send him a text about your work this might make him wonder if you’re really working. He may also assume that you are busy and think that you probably can’t answer him back anytime soon, so he will stop texting you prematurely.

A lot of women don’t think of things like this and end up missing out on great guys because they just failed to get the proper kind of connection going over text. So be sure to send him the right signals.

Texting Tip 2 – Make Him Feel Comfortable

When you text a guy, you should be careful not to make him feel uncomfortable, by saying anything outlandish that is going to catch them off guard. 

Men like to have fun, so sending him funny texts will make him feel comfortable around you, but remember, while men generally appreciate a little humor he doesn’t wanna date a clown, and jokes are often misinterpreted when sent over text message. This is why it’s generally best to simply be confident and direct, which makes a guy more likely to respond to you favorably. 

Also, make absolutely sure that you don’t sound desperate when texting him. I mean you don’t wanna make him feel bad for you do you? Rather, you should convey the attitude that you’re a woman living your own life with your own awesome lifestyle. The best way to do this is to start your texts with a question. This way, he’ll feel like you’re checking up on him and that you’re happy with your own life.

Texting Tip 3 – Don’t Try To Hard

Remember ladies, you are the prize! When you’re texting a man, you should be confident and assertive. You need to show that you’re the co-captain and not just a passenger. Moreover, you should always be honest and respectful when you text a guy. Don’t be afraid to show your personality through your words. If you’re a woman, this will make him feel appreciated and show that you’re the one for him.

Texting Tip 4 – Be A Flirt

It’s important to be playful. Guys love a lady who flirts with them. It will definitely increase the speed at which he asks to make plans with you, and gets the ball rolling.

In most cases these for a simple chips we’re all it’s gonna take to supercharge your texting attraction skills. However, if you really want to take things to the next level you should definitely check out Text Chemistry which is a complete step-by-step guide to texting a man so that he will fall head over heels for you (your heels that is!) 

I highly recommend it if this is something you wish to dig into more deeply. So check it out and have fun texting all kinds of hot guys!


Relationship break-ups are one of the main reasons that people break their leases. And, while most reasonable landlords will be understanding about this sort of thing, some won’t, and this can create a serious financial problem for those living paycheck to paycheck. In fact this is the very reason why some landlords are reluctant to rent to unmarried couples.

So, before you go out and rent an apartment with your girlfriend, think things through. Are you really headed for marriage, or is this just a temporary thing that could end at any time? My advice is only to move in with a woman if you think you will be with her long-term, or if you will be able to keep paying the rent on your apartment without her assistance.

Be honest with yourself. Is your relationship hitting a wall? Are you constantly bored with where you are right now in your relationship? Maybe it is about time to re-assess, either move on or stick with it.

Once you have figured that out, the next step is making a real internal commitment to the health of your relationship. If you are serious, I’d recommend studying up on the topic of how to keep your relationship thriving. Here are a few tips to get you started.

One of the key things is that you want to be sure to keep her desiring you sexually. If you let the passion fade she will start seeing you as a “male roommate” rather than as a boyfriend or lover, and that’s never a good thing. The key is to stimulate her emotions and keep her feeling sexually turned on and attracted to you.There are many ways to do this, one of the best resources I’ve found is something called The Desire System, which shows how to use new research on female desire that was conducted by an Asian Dr. named Dr. David to get women desiring you very passionately. You can watch a video about the desire system here.

The truth is that relationship plateau happens to everyone. Your situation isn’t any different from everyone else, but if you believe that you are stuck on a boring plateau in your relationship then you need to take action while there is still time.

One of the first things you should do is tell your loved one how you feel. It is better to work on your relationship together rather than doing it yourself. Helping each other will help you discover new things about yourself and your loved one.

It also helps to be vulnerable to show your loved one that you are human and also makes mistakes. A line of communication between you and your loved one will go a long way to revitalizing your relationship.

Try doing new things together. Rehash the usual movie and dinner dates and do something that you both have been planning to do for a long time. Go on a trip to Hawaii or Mexico, do something exciting like hiking, scuba diving, or skydiving. Doing a new activity or a new trip with your loved one helps both of you create new experiences that you both can share.