Is there a guy you are talking to right now who you would really like to have as your boyfriend?
Or maybe you’d even like him to propose? Maybe he would get down on one knee give you a big ring take you on a trip and you could have his babies? Do you know any guys like that? Well, if so keep reading because I’m about to expose exactly how you should be texting a guy like this to make him fall in love with you forever.
Have you heard of the hero instinct?
The Hero instinct was first introduced by relationship expert James Bauer, And since then it has become extremely well known. Essentially, this is an instinct that almost all men have, And when you trigger it you basically get a guy to want to be your hero as corny as that may sound. So basically, once you know how to trigger this instinct, you should have a much easier time attracting the man that you want.
The cool thing is that there are actually simple formulaic text messages that you can use to trigger this instinct in a man and get him to feel excited and connected to you on a romantic level.
Texting Tip 1 – Text About The Right (Non-Boring) Topics
The first step to texting a guy is to think of topics. Do you want to text him about things that make them excited and eager to chat and meet up with you. A guy does not want to read endless texts about your life, so try to come up with a topic that he’ll be interested in.
You can do this by asking him a question, mentioning something that interests him.
You also want to consider the logistics of when you text the guy. For example, if you were at work and you decide to send him a text about your work this might make him wonder if you’re really working. He may also assume that you are busy and think that you probably can’t answer him back anytime soon, so he will stop texting you prematurely.
A lot of women don’t think of things like this and end up missing out on great guys because they just failed to get the proper kind of connection going over text. So be sure to send him the right signals.
Texting Tip 2 – Make Him Feel Comfortable
When you text a guy, you should be careful not to make him feel uncomfortable, by saying anything outlandish that is going to catch them off guard.
Men like to have fun, so sending him funny texts will make him feel comfortable around you, but remember, while men generally appreciate a little humor he doesn’t wanna date a clown, and jokes are often misinterpreted when sent over text message. This is why it’s generally best to simply be confident and direct, which makes a guy more likely to respond to you favorably.
Also, make absolutely sure that you don’t sound desperate when texting him. I mean you don’t wanna make him feel bad for you do you? Rather, you should convey the attitude that you’re a woman living your own life with your own awesome lifestyle. The best way to do this is to start your texts with a question. This way, he’ll feel like you’re checking up on him and that you’re happy with your own life.
Texting Tip 3 – Don’t Try To Hard
Remember ladies, you are the prize! When you’re texting a man, you should be confident and assertive. You need to show that you’re the co-captain and not just a passenger. Moreover, you should always be honest and respectful when you text a guy. Don’t be afraid to show your personality through your words. If you’re a woman, this will make him feel appreciated and show that you’re the one for him.
Texting Tip 4 – Be A Flirt
It’s important to be playful. Guys love a lady who flirts with them. It will definitely increase the speed at which he asks to make plans with you, and gets the ball rolling.
In most cases these for a simple chips we’re all it’s gonna take to supercharge your texting attraction skills. However, if you really want to take things to the next level you should definitely check out Text Chemistry which is a complete step-by-step guide to texting a man so that he will fall head over heels for you (your heels that is!)
I highly recommend it if this is something you wish to dig into more deeply. So check it out and have fun texting all kinds of hot guys!